Submitted by: Marie-Claire Smith
Has your boyfriend lost interest in you lately? Are asking yourself, “How can I keep my boyfriend interested?” Do not bother getting depressed – it is not worth it. What you have lost may only be temporary, and your love can be rekindled. Here are 7 quick and easy tips for learning how to get your boyfriend’s attention back even if he tends to be showing more interest in other women.
1 – The first way to regain your boyfriend’s attention is to find a way to convince him that he still wants you. Unless he has shown that he undoubtedly does not want to associate with you anymore, then there are a number of things you can do to hook his attention.
2 – One of the best things you can do is to simply be his good friend. Be there for him, showing him that you understand him and that you can be around him without having to be lovey-dovey all of the time. Show him that you can kid around with him, seeing the fun side of life together. In the midst of all of this support and love, he may well become aware that he wants you again.
3 – When you spend time with your boyfriend, be loving to him, but do not be afraid to show a bit of sass now and then. You want him to want you, so give him the feeling that you are not just available at his whim at any time convenient to him. I am not suggesting that you play games here. Rather, I am saying that you want to have a hard-to-get type of attitude. This is an age-old way to get your guy more interested than ever – and women know that it works.
4 – While having a hard-to-get attitude at times is a smart move, you need to walk the fine line of also making sure that he knows you are still available to him. It is okay to innocently flirt with other men and to spend some time with your friends, because creating just a touch of jealousy can fuel sexual desire in both of you. But, it is important that you never give him the impression that you would ever think of straying or being with another man.
5 – Avoid coming across as needy, no matter what. If you act desperate, your boyfriend will instantly lose some of his attraction for you. It is important you do not make a big deal with him about his recent lack of attention to you. Let him know that you are okay with everything that has happened – and that you are willing to put it all behind you. If you act desperate, things will not work out the way you intend.
6 – Whenever you are aware that he is looking at you or giving you attention, try coyly shooting him a glance out of corner of your eye. This type of look will let him know that you are paying attention to him, but in a way that promotes a sense of mystery and longing.
7 – Now and then, bring up some of the good times that you have had as a couple. Show him pictures or home movies. Or, bring up funny or romantic stories about the times you have shared together. These warm memories will stir up his feelings for you in the way they were before things cooled off. Be careful not to bring up any unpleasant memories – stick with the positive, instead.
I have personally employed all of these techniques when my boyfriend seemed to lose interest a few months ago, and I can tell you that they work like a charm. Remember, the guy that is really meant for you, he will come around. Play your cards right by making him see how much he really adores you.
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